One thing that I learned over the
summer of 2009 is that “All fences have flaws”. This being said I learned some
important truths about cows and fences. First: All fences have flaws and the
cows will always find the flaw. Second: A content cow will stay within the
fence, even if it is not adequate to stop the cow from going through it. Third:
There are some cows that are never content and will therefore find the flaws in
the fence. Last: There are not very many fences that will hold a cow if the cow
decides that it really wants to be on the other side of the fence.
After spending the summer
building fences I made the mistake of thinking that I had become good at it. I
was proud of my fences, I was mistakenly confident that the fences that I had
built would hold the cows where we wanted them to be. One of the most
surprising things to me was which fences failed, and which ones worked. Some of
the fences I built in a way that I thought would work. Other fences that I
built I called “scarecows” because scaring the cows away is the only way that
they could work. The first test of my fences came when we first put cattle in
the St. George field. The day after we put the cows in the field I went to
check to see if the fences were holding. This was the day I learned firsthand
where the phrase “the grass is always greener on the other side” comes from.
To explain I need to describe
what I saw on this particular morning. As I drove into the field I got to a
point where I could see the first fence that I had built across the Santa Clara
River. This fence was built in a path that I had made through the willows,
trees, weeds, and cattails. Because the fence was built in this path there is a
narrow trail along the fence. The important point here is that the willows,
trees, weeds and cattails are identical on both sides of the fence. What I
observed on this particular morning was several cows standing on one side of
the fence in the willows, trees, weeds, and cattails pushing against the fence
so that they could reach the identical willows, trees, weeds, and cattails on
the other side of the fence. This particular fence held, but this is not the
only place the cows have pushed on the fence trying to get to what is on the
other side. I have not been so fortunate with some of the other fences and
corrals that I have built this summer.
There are several lessons that
can be learned from observing the cows in relation to the fences. One of my
first observations is that many times we will look longingly at something that
we want when what we have is every bit as good, possibly even better. Sometimes
we will “push the fence down” only to find out that what was on the other side
is detrimental to our happiness and not such a good thing after all. There are
other times when we will stand contentedly within our fence not doing anything
more than what we are doing when things could be much better if we would simply
push our boundaries a little bit. I’m not saying that we should jump the fence
all the time, what I am getting at is that we need to not let our boundaries
hold us back from becoming better. Sometimes if we step out of our comfort zone
we learn and grow and become better for it. Do not get me wrong, the cows are
never better for getting past the fence. However, people are not cows and can
reason well enough to know when to push a boundary and when to be content.
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